Sunday, 16 June 2019

An Introduction to Gestalt: Sills, Lapworth and Desmond

An Introduction to Gestalt: Sills, Lapworth and Desmond
Contents


Chapter 1 A Brief History of Gestalt

Goodman believed Gestalt was for the good of the community as well as the individual. Central concept to Gestalt is wholeness. Gestalt means organised whole. The whole is more than the sum of the parts, and Gestalt is predominantly interested in the whole.
Psychoanalytic effect on Gestalt
1.        childhood affects adulthood
2.       Pathological behaviour can be made sense of by information that is out of awareness but can be brought into awareness
3.       Humans have an innate drive to equilibrium
4.       Humans have innate drives
Interpersonal effects on Gestalt
1.       Human problems are manifested physically
Gestalt psychology
1.       We perceive in wholes, according to our perceived need
2.       Zeigarnick effect, i.e. unfinished business. We naturally fill in the gaps of unfinished business and also have an urge to finish them
Existential effect
1.       Perls: we are both connected to people and alone
2.       Phenomenology, onmly present experience is the only truth we can know


Focussing on our immediate pressing need, can result in not seeing in the ground a better way to satisfy it.
Hungry man sees sandwich forgets his wife said I’ve made supper for you and its in the fridge.

Response-ability is the fact that responsibility gives you the ability to respond in the way that you choose, and you can do so authentically or not.

The paradox of interconnectedness and aloneness developed 2 different streams of Gestalt.

Field theory=nothing can be understood apart from its context.
Aggression as a healthy drive to reach out and take from the world
Moreno is the originator of psychodrama

The split in the path between connectedness and aloneness saw Perl’s doing his circuses to full lecture halls
I think the first branch is Fritz who emphasized individual experience and agency
Laura Perl’s saw Gestalt as a phenomenological approach emphasising co-creation: this is relational Gestalt therapy.

Chapter 2 An overview of Gestalt principles and recent developments

Gestalt Principles, in priority order
1.       Relationship in Gestalt practice
2.       Awareness
3.       Whole making: the formation and completion of gestalts
4.       Embodied Self
5.       Interconnectedness and the field

Relationship in Gestalt Practice

We are intrinsically nothing, rather we are what we are at the current moment and this can change. Therefore adopt an attitude of curiosity rather than judgement.

Awareness

Often we go through on autopilot with learned patterns.  If these patterns cause problems then we need to move to a greater awareness of how things are for us, thoughts, emotions, behaviours etc.  Thus we need to become aware of our autopilot, and what it deals with, so that we can choose to do things differently,.
As we become aware, then we can choose and thus we become responsible. As we become responsible then we have greater agency and possibility.
The self in Gestalt is taken as the ongoing process being influenced and influencing by the world.

Whole Making

To complete unfinished business then the unfinished business needs to be re-experienced in the here and now and completed.
People are whole, the outcome of the variety of their systems.
People have a natural tendency to want to finish the incomplete.  Unfinished business takes energy to support it, as there is energy in the desire to complete.
The incomplete can be
1.       Finished
2.       Acknowledged that it can never be finished

Embodied Self

Lose your mind and come to your senses. We have taken the mind\body split and become all mind, but doing this loses the source of our personal wisdom about me.  The idea here is that the body holds wisdom, and that not all wisdom is achieved cognitively, so this opens the door to creative responses, to treating the symptoms of the body, as meaningful events.

Interconnectedness and the field

Experience is always through relationships between parts of our experience. Our contact with our environment.
There is the belief that people self regulate, so that if you have dissonance, then resolution is the natural tendency, so dialectics always moves to synthesis. Self regulation always refers to sweating when hot, letting off steam when angry

Recent trends in Gestalt
First Wave
Perl’s’ Gestalt was confrontational, putting you in the hot seat, challenging you to be authentic, and individual.
Second Wave
This puts relationship at the heart of Gestalt and used much from self psychology and person centred. Proponents are McEwan . There is within this wave much on field relations .

Chapter 3 The Relationship in Gestalt Practice

Probably the most important thing a practitioner can offer is the accepting of the client as they are.
Gestalt doesn’t seek to change people as it sees an attitude to health Ge as a natural attribute of humans. Gestalt believes that by being fully aware of what you are experiencing and how you are acting, this can make you responsible and therefore have agency and the possibility to change.
The self is a process and a product of relation within an environment between influencing and being influenced.
Gordon Wheeler maintains we have different selves that relate to different contexts, and that there is no unifying self.  Again the self emerges out of relationship
The self therefore is dynamic and emerges within relationship, but some parts are more static than others, which will see commonality in the way that I can behaved.

Healthy and Unhealthy relational contact

Health People are:
1.       Positive
2.       Adaptable
3.       Have satisfying activities and relationships
4.       Proactive and creative, not passive
5.       Interdependent relationships
6.       Seeking out new experiences
7.       Be aware of all of our experience and owning it, rather than projecting it.
8.       Emotionally aware and supportive
9.       Act according to current experience rather than habit
10.   Acting in the present rather than with attention in the past or the future.
Creative indifference is the mid pint between polarities that allows us to act either way. If you spend too much time focussed on the past and the future, then the present may be a misty area, with no clear figures.
 A baby has the healthy attributes that we seek

Dialogue

Buber has it that in an authentic encounter both parties are changed. An I thou relationship is that the person is seen as a person, both individual and connected.
I It, is a subject object relation, I thou a subject, subject.,
I It: we control and manipulate, we use for our own ends. Alternatively it may control or manipulate us.
I thou is relating to the subject as you find them now, with no preconceptions of how they might be.  I thou relates to the whole subject and not just parts  of them.
Transference is an I it relation
Your relationships with others dictate how you relate to yourself.
I-it is necessary for living, I thou is necessary for a fulfilled life.
Dialogic process moves between the two modes, I it and I thou.
The therapist should develop the clients here and now experience, in some way their I thou relationship to themselves, which can be practiced with their relation to others.  A Therapist will often respond with I it to the client.

Different Relational Interactions required for effective relationships
Being curious, being open to influence and being influenced seems the attitudes of I thou.

Chapter 4 Awareness

Some say awareness is the goal of gestalt. Awareness is the full recognition of our experience, of what we are feeling, thinking and doing in the present moment, and what is happening around us.
Awareness is noticing without judgement. Awareness is not introspection which is a deliberate turning attention inwards in a controlling manner.
Awareness is engagement with the newness of each strange new moment.
Awareness means getting in touch with the things that we have lost, through not using our senses or repression.
Repressing our responses, dulls our spontaneity and our vitality to react in the way that most enlivens us.
If we become aware of in the present I am remembering, I am imagining, it can make the past and the future seem less real, less present, less active.  If you constantly ruminate, its like you are currently reliving this event, likewise the impact of imagination is that you are currently experiencing even though it has never happened.

4 areas of awareness

1.       The inner zone: the body: Becoming aware of bodily sensations supports the emergence of expression and action, rather that doing what we think we should. Authenticity lives int eh body
2.       The outer zone: the five senses, the contact functions
3.       The middle zone: cognitive: thoughts, fantasies, memories and imaginations. Perl’s believed the source of many problems was living in the middle zone
4.       Co-creating zone: this zone emerges in the betweenness of people in contact. As difference comes together so you get synthesis.  Both are transformed by this meeting.
Heightening our awareness in these four zones supports us experiencing the fullness and beauty of life. 
Many of our strong feelings when experienced here and now are noisy and wet, we shout, cry, scream or laugh. We express them naturally and they are gone.  IN bereavement the feelings come again and again in waves. Sometimes we get into a feeling habit, where we repeatedly repress a an emotion, or respond in a fixed way that diminishes the freshness of the feeling.
Curiosity is seen as an innate drive, and emotionally seems similar to excitement
Feelings like thoughts can be habituated. These can be the result of once in a specific context they were useful, but are they still.

Chapter 5 Embodiment

When embodying experiences then  our bodies are alive and vibrant in the present moment. This means being aware of both our inner and outer bodily expressions moment by moment.
Our society teaches us to be intellect only, intellect identifying, we distance ourselves from our bodies and our relationships. Indeed we talk about my body, as if it is distant from us, be we don’t talk about my thinking.  I identify my body as the area where things happen to me, rather than me that is happening.
If we left our bodies out of experience, it would dull the experience, and it wouldn’t not be meaningful.
Experience combines all zones, and the body, the inner zone is part of the meaningfulness of a moment, of an experience.
The aim within gestalt is to rediscover ourselves in our bodies, to be our body not merely to use it.

Integrating the body

Sometimes unfinished business is left in somatic experience
Be careful around shame felt in the body which may have been objectified.

Internal somatic experiences

Sensations and feelings, how the body feels, what affect is present

Outer Bodily Gestures and posture

We speak with gestures, and there is a reciprocal language between both people in a conversation. Sometimes these physical manifestations are replaying unfinished business.
If you have a good WA and the client has good support, you may trying on their body posture.

Body in Movement

Movement of the body is required to change our experience. Extending the repertoire of bodily movement can facilitate new action. 
When you’re working on a problem with a client, and their body moves in a certain way, get them to accentuate it, and get them to tell you what its like for them, to see if this informs their narrative.  Some ways a client may move their body have been learnt early in life and prevent them from acting in certain ways.
Sometimes clients are invited to express how they are in the present, what they wish for in the future, in their bodies, in movement. 
Again , you can use your body as a sounding board. So to choose between two options, then place them in different parts of the room, and then walk into them, and report back as to what your body experienced.

Embodied Whole Includes our Cultural Context

We are born into a society, as bodies related to other bodies. There is a culture of what our bodies can be used to mean, i.e. gestures, what our different body parts mean, what is acceptable in how we touch ourselves and others.  This varies depending on sex, class, society and  situation.
Eros: currently this is seen to be just sexual but is part of a loving, caring and desiring engagement.  When we are with a friend we are attracted to there is an energy, a liveliness, we may feel it in our genitals but it doesn’t need to be reduced to a sexualised feeling.  You need boundaries between intimacy,  affection and sexual desire, and not to allow all to reduce to sexual desire, or fear of sexual desire.

Chapter 6 Wholeness and the formation and completion of  Gestalts

Gestalt is an organised whole, the whole preceding the parts.
Working with clients, understand their problem within their lives, how it is engaged with , how it developed, how it is in relation to their relations, history and current situation.  How do they make gestalts of the world, of themselves.
To  create meaning you need figure and ground. The ground adumbrates the figure, no ground no figure.  It is our need that dictates what will become figure, as its where we put our attention. The ground is mostly out of our awareness.
As a figure forms, say a post box to post a letter, there are many chains of connection that enable this figure, such as knowing the colour of post-boxes, where to get a stamp etc.
Healthy living is the ability to create clear and vibrant figures that meet our needs and then to re-assimilate them into the ground to enable us to meet our future needs.

Completion

Not only do we have a need to see in wholes but we have a natural tendency to want to complete.  This can be in terms of behaviour, i.e. perceptually,  behaviourally, or cognitively, or emotionally. All of these can produce unfinished business.

Cycles

There are many cycles in life, day night, seasons, digestion, starting, middles and endings of tasks, jobs, relationships.
Healthy cycle is
1.       Noticing sensation
2.       Forming a figure
3.       Taking action
4.       Completing
5.       Contact
6.       Assimilation and completion
7.       Withdrawal of energy

Stage One Sensation

Stimulus comes internally or externally, something prompts our awareness, something moves across our field of vision. At this stage of the sensation, there isn’t clarity about what it is, but there is a something that has just happened, or is just happening. So this could be a general sensation that something isn’t right, but then you still need to locate and identify the sensation

Stage Two  Recognition

The sensation emerges as more of the figure and ground are formed. The individual locates, recognises the sensation, maybe even names it.

Stage Three Appraisal and Planning (Mobilising Energy)

Having given the figure full attention, then  planning starts, a decision is taken and energy is directed into this.

Stage 4 Action

Now the person makes movement towards achieving their goal, this could mean some trial and error experiments, or maybe straight into action.

Stage 5 Contact

Here there is full engagement with what has been chosen to do, where everything else recedes into the background as action meets need. HERE There is a clear and distinct figure, where all of me is engaged within the action, which satisfies my need.

Stage 6 Assimilation and completion

If the need has been met with full contact, then the person feels a sense of completion and satisfaction. Even if the action was a painful one, such as crying, then there is still some felt sense of relief.  If the original sensation still remains then a reappraisal needs to take place, so that a new plan can be formed.

Stage 7: Withdrawal of Energy

The individual loses attention in this figure which now becomes background and it gradually loses its interest

The space between

Known as the fertile\creative void, between one gestalt and the next. Here we may experience directionlessness, and if we stay in the here and now, then when remain open to new opportunities.  The creative void can also be experienced as a futile void, where it feels empty, meaningless and a person can lapse into despair. If you rush too quickly to fill this void, then you miss emerging figures.

Disturbances in the cycle

There are many sensations that could call forth gestalts to be completed, but we bring them to a premature end so that we can focus on that which we value. So we don’t complete gestalts on the basis of choice.

Sometimes the cycle of awareness is interrupted prematurely, which leads to us not making full contact and gaining satisfaction. The disturbance of gestalt completion is known as a creative adjustment at the time to enable you to manage a difficult situation.
Creative adjustments then get made habitual and function as interruptions to the cycle of experience.
Cycle of experience=cycle of awareness.


Modifications to Contact

Contact is the full meeting with another, or desires to our satisfaction, where we do not merge
There are 7 ways to interrupt contact
1.       Desensitisation
2.       Deflection
3.       Introjection
4.       Projection
5.       Retroflection
6.       Egotism
7.       Confluence

Desensitisation

This is the process where someone numbs themselves to experience their senses and the world. So it means dulling of the senses to external or internal event. This can range from not being physically\emotionally aware, through to full catatonia.
You can also be over sensitized which will lead to avoidance.
Both of these states can be achieved by drugs and alcohol.
Mainly desensitisation happens at the sensation part of the cycle, although it can happen at others so in the completion and withdrawal phase, if you’re desensitised to  hear praise then you wont  complete correctly.
Sometimes desensitisation can be really useful, when your knee is hurt and your playing tennis.  You can tell what you are desensitised to by when all of a sudden you realise you are very….stressed, tired etc.
For over-sensitisation, do you notice yourself feeling overwhelmed and overstimulated by the world, you may want to try slowing down and deciding what you want before facing the world

Deflection

Deflection is where we divert energy from its natural path to an alternative one. It prevents the energy from making an impact happen on us and can happen at any part of the cycle of experience. Deflection often happens at the sensation point, when we seek to not be aware or a sensation by turning elsewhere, or acting elsewhere.

Introjection

This is the process of swallowing whole some message. So this can be something swallowed whole in the past without question and operates now in the present.  Most introjects happen when we are young vulnerable and impressionable. In adult life we are generally more discerning. Advertisers depend on introjection to sell their products, which we have to accept without question. The key questions to introjects is are they true, are they useful. 
Introjects are often noticed at the mobilisation phase, where there is planning.  There can also be sensation interjections, e.g. don’t get angry.  As we learn we may introject the modeller, then refine as we get more confident with the rule
A good anti introjection stance is to chew before swallowing

Projection

This is disowning one part of yourself and placing it on something or someone outside you.
Projection has a double hit in terms of contact, I don’t fully meet another person as there is a part of me I’m not brining, I don’t fully meet them as I’m putting part of me on them, so don’t see them as to how they are.  Projection can often happen due to a previous injunction, e.g. don’t be angry.
Projection is a mixture of retroflection and projection which is.  This is doing to others something that you want to do to yourself, so if you have an injunction don’t ask for help, then you make someone else a cup of tea when you want one yourself.  To re-own your projection then ask yourself as you judge others, in what way am I like that too. If you offer a colleague something ask yourself do you want that?

Retroflection

Retroflection is a process where energy that is naturally directed outwards is directed inwards.  Retroflection’s are experienced in our bodies, where we might bite our lip when we are angry at someone. Retroflecting enables society to exist, so that we stop ourselves jumping to the front of the queue, and we make this ok, by feeling anger internally at how slow it is moving.  Retroflection is often seen at the action stage and the user is both actor and recipient.
There are two types of retroflection
1.       I use my energy to do what I want to do to you, to me. I stroke myself instead of you
2.        They do to themselves something that relates to what they want from the environment, so I smoke, where I want comfort from the world
Retroflection is important for society, if every time you got angry you punched someone, you wouldn’t do very well  To work with retroflection’s, then first of all you need to stop them, so do an incompatible behaviour, then see what need that leaves.

Egotism

Egotism in this context means self-monitoring or spectatoring.  This prevents true involvement in any situation.,  This can be useful as you learn something, but after that if prevents you doing it.  Eogtism can happen at any stage of the cycle but is often seen at the completion stage. So instead of enjoying completion, a person stands outside themselves and judges themselves.  ~Thus instead of being aware of the inner feeling of completion, and the satisfaction from it, people step back to evaluate and judge their performance.
Egotism can take the form of pride and admiration or self criticism and denigration.  Self –analysis can lead to introspection which can lead to a flow of the cycle of experience, as it can take away the sense of awareness of completion and satisfaction

Confluence

This is merging with another or your environment so the sense of separateness is gone. This prevents individualisation and differentiation.
Unhealthy confluence prevents you from experiencing your own experiences. Healthy confluence shares a shared experience.  Confluence as a problem can be seen at the point of completion prior to the creative void.  The individual may fear being alone as they understand the world as part of a we relationship and how to experience by yourself.  They might find it hard to choose, hard to say no, hard to take decisions as they are only effective in a confluent relationship.
Confluence , can also appear at other points in the cycle, so at mobilising people may get wedded to an idea and have difficulty in letting it go, i.e. once I find you we’re together forever no matter what.  Confluence is particularly relevant to groups and teams and precludes creativity.  To keep confluence then you need to maintain the status quo, there can be no creativity, nothing surprising, or spontaneous to disturb the fixed relationship.  This ends up safe but boring, confluent.
Confluence can be healthy, in intense moments between people that are then withdrawn from
Resnick looks at the isolation=>separation=>Contact=>Intimacy=>Confluence continuum
And argues that we need time at each place for a healthy relationship.

Modifications to Contact: Moving between the poles

Each interruption to contact has its opposite

Desensitisation
Sensitivity
Acutely sensitive
Deflection
Reception
Attraction
Introjection
Chewing/Considering
Rejection
Projection
Co-Owning
Ownership
Retroflection
Energy Outwards
Impulsiveness
Egotism
Expressing
Spontaneity
Confluence
Withdrawing
Isolation

The idea being that if the figure is one of these, the rest of them is ground. It seems helpful to be aware of the full range of possibility.

Unfinished Business

Interruptions to the cycle are unfinished business.  Our awareness in the present will be affected by incomplete gestalts.  It is easier to delay\postpone unpleasant gestalts.  We have gestalts that we consciously put to one side until later, i.e. completing my course.  However putting things to one side can cost energy, in not being aware of it, of putting it to one side, of avoiding thinking about it. Delaying the completion of a task, preventing the full expression of a feeling, or preventing the development of an idea all take energy.  This is similar to the psychoanalytic idea of repetition. When needs are not met in childhood, we feel the need to repeatedly meet them in adult hood.
If someone doesn’t know what’s important to them, get them to focus on their body, and see what the needs are there, maybe they  are blocking something off.

Fixed Gestalts

Many incomplete gestalts originate in childhood.  Premature closure is the term to describe the premature completion of a cycle, so there is an interruption to the cycle and it is closed down, without finishing.  A fixed gestalt would be for example the result of an introject of big boys don’t cry, so if you feel sad, then feel angry.
Much of the work in Gestalt involves identifying and undoing fixed gestalts. WS

Chapter 7 Interconnectedness and the field

Context gives meaning. So if you look at one part of a persons behaviour you will get one meaning, as you incorporate that in all of their current behaviour, given the experiences they have had, the culture that they grew up in then you will get other meanings
Kurt Lewin is the originator of field theory
There are new complexity theories where we are both being affected and creating new patterns which affect us and others.
The thing is that the context is always changing according to need, and to changes within the field, therefore there can never be total meaning, total understanding.

Five principles of field theory
1.       The principle of organisation
2.       The principle of contemporaneity
3.       The Principle of singularity
4.       The principle of changing process
5.       The principle of possible relevance

The principle of organisation

We derive meaning from perceiving the whole situation.  Meaning changes depending on context, e.g. 2 legged chair. Therefore don’t jump to conclusions

The principle of contemporaneity

All of the field is happening simultaneously now. Emotions are an outcome of how you are currently So if a client is thinking about the past and feeling sad, then we need to know how this is created and experienced in the present.

The Principle of singularity

Everyone is unique. Gestalt doesn’t treat diagnosis, e.g. depression, anxiety, but how someone is experiencing these descriptions in their own way.

The principle of changing process

Nothing is static. A pathology is a creative adjustment.  There are no people characteristics, rather a person is behaving a certain way at this time  Perl’s thinks the self creates itself moment by moment at the contact boundary.,
People exist within sex, class, family, society, relationship, friend network, country, planet, Context is given through all of these.,

Field work:
1.       Field sensitive
a.       Let meaning emerge don’t push
2.       Field insightful
a.       Seeing relations in the field, patterns and parts of the field that haven’t been explored
3.       Field affecting
a.       Asking questions that enlarge the field, and affect the figure
4.       Field present
a.       Seeing ourselves as part of the field

The principle of possible relevance

Everything in the field has possible meaning. Everything is part of the total organisation. We cannot ignore the relevance of any aspect of the field to meaning.  A gestaltist at an art exhibition would be aware of picture, frame, art exhibition etc.


Chapter 8 Assessment and the change process

Think of assessing to produce a structure to help understand a person as they are at the current time, as opposed to saying something permanent about them, which would limit our ability to understand them holistically and phenomenologically as you would be reifying them and closing  down interpretation.
Taking this approach you should always use verbs to describe your client, so obsessing rather than obsessed, one is a transient action, the other a state of varying degree of permanence., So active verbs rather than nouns helps this description.

Phenomenological assessment

Observable contact functions

1.       Movement and posture
2.       Voice
3.       Seeing: eye contact
4.       Hearing do they hear correctly

Contact boundary

1.       How well does the client make contact with you
2.       What sort of contact
3.       Do you feel an immediate response from them or are the distant or distracted
4.       How and when does she modify contact

Cycles of experience

1.       Is the client aware of his sensations, does he mobiles his resources, make a plan and take action, does he complete his action and satisfactorily withdraw
2.       What modifications to the cycle do you notice
3.       What unfinished business or fixed gestalts do you notice
4.       What patterns emerge from the clients relationships

Self and environmental support

1.       What is the clients breathing like, is it deep where it expects the environment to nourish it
2.       Are they able to soothe and regulate, is the chair used as a relaxing support
3.       Are they overly dependent on feedback or do they refuse it
4.       Do they have a supportive network of friends

The field

1.       What life circumstances are impinging on the client at the moment
2.       What are the cultural, social and organisational implications of their context
3.       What feelings and images do you have in response to the client
4.       Do you like them
5.       What do you notice in your body, try to allow your observations to be tentative.

Suitability for Gestalt

Gestalt can increase the amount of contact, with the world, the amount that I take to contact the world, the amount of the world I can contact, it can be a solvent to weaken old habits, so it is useful for people who want invigorating, but not for people whose experience of the world is too much and cant make sense of their experience and need glue not solvent.
Gestalt not really suitable for Axis 2 or secondary care, certainly no psychotic work.
Don’t work with a client if you feel frightened of them as a result of your unfinished business

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Agree the focus of your work with you client.  The gestalt goal would be for them to meet with you fully and explore whatever emerges and to achieve mutuality of contact.  There is the aim on one hand to have an I Thou meeting but then on another to focus in on what the client contributes to their problems and therefore have an I It relationship. In some ways in therapy there is an aim to meet and within that meeting to focus on the problems that are presented. Problems can sometimes detract from meeting.

The Map

We should not confuse the map with the territory. Sometimes maps are best filled in when you explore. So with a treatment plan, use it as a guide, but do not let it stop you exploring the territory

Three stages of Gestalt:
First Phase
Second Phase
Final Phase

First Phase

Building a relationship, make a contract. The clients task is to find out who am I , how am I in the world.  Normally this stage is not associated with change, unless there is an immediate crisis or problem to be solved.  It is also concerned with developing health process and enough self support to go on a deeper exploration and the possible challenging of old ways of being.  What comes out is themes of thinking, feeling and behaving.  Also the disowned parts of the person, may be recognised, struggled with and integrated.  If the client projects danger this stage may take a long time, as he may not trust the counsellor. If the client is blocked at the sensation awareness stage then the process of heightening awareness will be slow. 

Second Phase

The task here is to explore the themes that have emerged in the first stage in more depth. Sometimes this may involve finishing unfinished business.  Gestalt aims to make figures in the present lively to aim for satisfaction, however unfinished figures from the past still affect the present.  Clients may discover and challenge core beliefs, and try new behaviours.  Feelings are used as the compass to orient us to where we want to or don’t want to go.

Final Phase

This phase involves the integration and practising of new ways of being and behaving.  You should see more dialogic relationship between client and therapist.  Issues of ending need to be addressed. Review of the journey so satisfaction can take place is needed as well. Problems with ending can be clinging onto contact, or not wanting it, so rushing to the next things.

The method of travel

This is the method chosen to approach each problem.
The first band is the phenomenological approach, which enables full contact of a dialogic relationship.
The second band are the use of specific interventions designed to assist the client in achieving better understanding and awareness of themselves. These are known as experiments as the aim is to find out and not to change.  Experiments pay specific attention to interruptions in the cycle of awareness, of fixed gestalts, unsatisfying completions. The therapist also will notice how the presenting problem is related to the problems with the cycle of awareness to design the experiment accordingly.












          Exercises

Awareness of the Inner Zone

The physical

Notice your body which parts are relaxed or tense and what the movement in your body is. Then lie down, start a breathing meditation, then do progressive muscle relaxation, and notice the sensation in your body

Feelings and Emotions

Remember the whole experience (all senses, all zones) of
1.       happy
2.       angry
3.       Sad
4.       Fearful
5.       Anxious

Awareness of the Middle zone

Close your eyes, Pay attention to your thoughts, notice how many are about past, or future rather than the present.

Awareness of the Outer zone

Seeing
Really look with attention and just that, with curiosity, see what you see
Sounds
Really listen see what you hear
Touching
Really touch around you
Taste
Get some food and allow yourself to taste it slowly
Smell
Try different smells, lick the back of your hand then smell
Talking
Experiment with 7 different ways to say the same thing
Moving
Imagine you have a client in front of you, and notice all the different ways of conveying a message using all of your different sense.

Practice with a partner

Take it in turns and go through an I am aware that about what you see, then focus on what your partner is saying. Explore each others hands by touch and be aware as giver and received

Awareness of the Co-Creating Zone

Have a conversation between you about something that is unfinished and that one of you cares about.  As you converse notice what is happening in the three zone.  Notice your familiar responses and any unique ones.  After 15 minutes debrief then repeat and see for the next 10 minutes if anything else emerges.

Practise combining the zones

Say now that I’m aware of, and follow your attention without criticism.  Note where your favourite zone is. Note your favourite sense. Also notice if you are avoiding something


An Introduction to Gestalt: Sills, Lapworth and Desmond

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